Hmm, now I understand better what you meant by "melted".
If your dense cloud was lowest quality, then it is impossible to have separated petals in dense cloud and absolutely not in mesh.
You will need dense cloud with points every 1mm...or better every 0.5mm and take another sets of 60 photos 45° from below and 60 photos 45° from above. Only then building mesh algorithm will start to work.
I am assuming, that your dense cloud has density ~ 1point every 2-2.5mm. Lowest settings takes only 1/16 of photo pixels so if your flower was 2048x2048 then lowest means 128x128.
You need to first figure out, why higher quality dense cloud is missing many points. Try to disable depth filtering in build dense cloud dialog...cloud will be probably very noisy.
Check matches(attachment) between photos. More valid matches between photos mean better connections between photos => more precise camera positions, better depth maps, cleaner dense cloud results.
If it did not help, you need to go back to alignment settings. Start with disabling generic preselection...then alignment will start to find matches on every photo with each other, so it will find maximum connected points possible. Be sure to use Highest accuracy, because your mask on every photo take out a lot of space from photo so only flower area matters during process. Then you will start to try change key point limit from lets say 5000 to 100000. Apply mask to should be also set correctly...ensure that matches after alignment process are from flower area and not from background area.
Let me know if it helped you