thanks for the advises.

im using CPL on cameras. from its name i guess it means circular. the polarizing film is linear according to the spec. so web site said it both linear and CPL did the trick and just that CPL is more modern coating. i also doubt this so the test i did was to have the film placed in front of the light and the CPL in front of my eye/camera. rotate the CPL to a certain angle, yes it becomes completely black and i cannot see the light behind the film. so i assume my materials works.
however, as mentioned before, if my eye/camera is not directly looking at the light (as in the test) but on a subject that reflect the light. (as in all cross-polar example i saw on web), i still have no way to completely filter them no matter which angle i try.
i have googled and read through the light stage which involve cross-polarization but it didn't say in detail how it set it up.
the light stage seems use the same setup of cross-polar and the lights are from all directions, so i doubt there is a limited range of light angle as discussed above. and there should be a way to really effectively eliminate all reflection.
anyone have some insights?